Hmmm, let me submit to you that that is just one perception of reality, tainted by your own view of it. This doesn't make it any less valid, at least not within your head, yet it's still just one perception of what's occurring among many different possibilities.
Honest debate never consists of name calling, personal attacks, nor emotion based reasoning and once any of the above are entered into by a party to said debate that party essentially cedes the debate to their opponent. Any and all things that follow that point in such discussions devolve into something else as the concepts of reasoned debate have been breached, making further debate impossible.
I'll stand by my earlier statement that I never start the shit slinging when involved in a debate and would welcome any and all examples you would care to drag up from various convos here that might validate your claims to the contrary. Just saying that's what happens does not make it a reality, as reality lies within the realm of provability