I agree quasi and I experience something similar to you. I live alone and next door to me there is a really messed up family. They fight a lot and it really is a tragic situation. Worst of all is they have a 7 year old little girl who is the greatest kid and you really wish you could whisk her away from the messed up future she's going to end up in. Every time I'm outside she comes running over to chat and I always feel the need to cut it short lest anyone get the wrong idea about the single guy on the street. It sucks but it's reality.