When I was young I wanted to do things just like my parents (who are married almost 50 years now). I wanted to meet someone, live together, get married & have kids, all with a few years in-between each step. Problem is I just could not find a girl that shared this view, and not through lack of trying. In my mid to late twenties I simply gave up and have been happy nonetheless. All my friends that have embarked on marriage or even de-facto relationships are separated & divorced. ALL the men have lost everything, even when no kids are involved. DK is right, find a trailer park woman and treat her bad...