Want a good woman then get one who has just gotten out of an 8 year marriage with a man who beat her, then treat her right and take good care of her. You will then have a woman who will stick with you even when her mother hates your guts. 29 years of marriage and she still loves me. Her mother still hates me for no reason I can think of. A good marriage can be had only when you find your soul mate and treat he as an equal. My fist marriage lasted only 3 years and ended when she started bedding down the entire police department of which I was one. I remarried 6 months after the first one and have never looked back. Just keep looking they are out there.