People in successful marriages will tell you it's all about compromise.
Actually it's all about the man shutting the fuck up and doing what the woman says.
If you can't admit that then you are in denial, and you will probably respond by accusing us misogynists of not being able to get laid, even though we get laid more often that any married man ever will (albeit infrequently).
The reason you are so happily married and cannot understand the rest of us is that you have simply lost your independence. This is not a bad thing. It can be compared to reaching Nirvana or other states of enlightenment that only Kim's purple stuff can take you to.
I long for that place and in modern times you don't need to get married to achieve such bliss. However at this point in time I still like to eat what I want when I want, go where I want when I want and generally live my days without planning or considering other peoples feelings.