If your self-esteem is low, why do you post pictures of yourself on the Web where everyone is a critic, and where people's standards are always impossibly high? I was in the military for more than 20 years, and I met a lot of women like you. When you're deployed and the ratio of women to men is 1 to 500 - you revel in the attention. But once you come back home, everything goes back to normal and you're not a "superstar" anymore. By the way - isn't this picture about 10 years old?

My advice to you is to stop looking for validation in other people. Most of the ones who complement you are looking to get something out of you.