MrKim.. Amen Brother.

If I tell a woman that i am fixed, a majority are no longer interested in any form of a relationship with me. I was 24 when I got myself fixed. I had to argue with the doctors to have the procedure done. I weighed the argument of already having been through 7 pregnancies resulting in 3 children. Only in that way was I allowed the right to be sterilized.

I wish I could have had children much later in life, but I really don't know if I would have had any looking back on it all and I wish I could have gotten fixed at 16 years old instead. Can you imagine I male asking for permanent birth control at a teen level? they would call out the police and rat him out to his parents, but you 12 year old daughter can get an abortion as a form of birth control and no one has the right to know.

Double standards is all I see.

Quazi.... Dude sorry to hear that. I know it will be difficult for him. When I was 20 I had a 3yr old and 1 yr old. What a fuck up for them and for myself. and the endless misery still continues to this day. Being a father so young has ruined my life in so many ways.