why are you so hostile? you really ought be kinder to others. I don't deserve that from you, Pond Water. You need to appoliges. The Blah's like to pick fights with you, that is their thing, BUT damn you for dragging the child into this. That is not right nor is it fair. Your opions of people having children with eachother that have differences is your own, but Shame on you for your contempt and Ill will to that child. At least that child is wanted. Other children are not so fortunate. You really do hurt people with your words and sometimes it is people that are not your target.