"i certainly hope you respond to this as i am not done with my therapy. i still need much more armchair shrinking from you blah. don't leave me in my most serious time of need. i thought you became a shrink to help people. no? "

I'm sorry, but I'm not a shrink. My wife made that comment, she is the psychologist, I'm a network specialist and I make good money at it. But if I've managed to help you out some with all this, then you are most welcome. Take it easy, we don't want to see that tender-timer pop out of your head over this silly shit.