What are you on, Beast? Everything you mentioned is either partially or completely preventable if someone cares to take precautions. Shit happens often and does need to be cleaned up, but a lot of shit can be stopped before it gets a chance to happen. If I'm an idiot then you are completely brainless. I guess your parents didn't believe birth control works so said, "Why bother?" and then along came you. So sorry Mr. & Mrs. Beast but I told you drinking and taking drugs during pregnancy can cause birth defects, why didn't you listen?